If He Gives You.........


 SMALL APPLIANCE: The relationship is toast. He's saying, "I'm keeping my distance. Don't get too close."
 FOOD BASKET: Rude -- don't do it! "Most women are on diets; 90% are dissatisfied with their body shape." Lack of sensitivity, big time. She'll feel horrible if she's overweight and, if she's underweight, she'll think he's trying to tell her something -- and it's not good.
JEWELRY: He's saying, "I like you a lot and I'm making an investment in you." The more expensive, the more commitment he's displaying. So make it expensive or forget it, stresses Glass.
BOOK: Totally impersonal. Not appropriate unless it's an extremely rare tome or comes with something intimate -- "preferably jewelry."
PICTURE OF SELF: He's egotistical and narcissistic. Acceptable only if put in a nice frame with a lovely note (ie., "I can't always be by your side, but think of me often ...").
MONEY: "If you're a hooker, that's a great gift!" Otherwise, insulting. Make an effort, buddy-boy!
CLOTHING: May indicate controlling tendencies; wants his lady to dress a certain way -- his way. Even if there are no ulterior motives, tread carefully. "Women are very sensitive about their clothing size -- buying too big a size means you think she's fat;